Sunday, February 7, 2010

Confidence.

I don't normally vent about life on my blog but I am going to today.

Why do people, as in relatives, have to critisise the choices I have made in my work and personal life?
I chose to give up my career to make things easier for my husband and son, and for family life. No stress for picking up from childcare, I am here for them in the evenings and day, I don't ask for anything in return. I enjoy doing what I do (I have my own little cleaning business), I earn very little but it makes for a much less stressful life all round, I am doing a degree so that one day my husband can retire and I can earn the money.
I am furious that the relative should have any right to insinuate that what I do is worthless and that I should contribute more to the household than I do.

A simple comment has totally bashed my confidence in what I am doing with my life. I wish that I could just ignore it and say poo to them!

I am designing a sock, cosy cables in aran weight yarn for lounging around in.



I need to frog back to the start of the heel as its too big.

Thank goodness for knitting and blogs that inspire to distract me from thoughtless people.

I might knit a punchbag.

1 comment:

  1. Knitted Punch bag sounds good. You know you made the right choices for you and your family. Lovely cream cables look very calmly. There will always be people who judge, sigh.

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